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LIBRARY
As with the rest of this website I've tried to keep this list as concise as possible. These books are the among the cream of the crop in their respective areas. They are all readable, packed with insights and practical value, and based on solid research. Books are listed alphabetically so people can quickly find titles that I refer them to, but since it's a short list it's easy to browse as well.
- The Bipolar Child
Demitri Papolos, M.D. and Janice Papolos
A comprehensive, detailed, and digestible book about bipolar disorder in children.
- The Essential Difference
Simon Baron-Cohen, Ph.D.
A fascinating theoretical book about "systemizers" versus "empathizers." Of special interest to Asperger folks (systemizers that they tend to be), Baron-Cohen also cites lots of wonderful research and case studies on male/female differences. Included are some self-assessments for systemizing and empathizing.
- Focusing
Eugene Gendlin, Ph.D.
Focusing is a classic book about a method Gendlin developed years ago for tuning in to your feelings and working through emotions.
- How to Handle a Hard-to-Handle Kid
C. Drew Edwards, Ph.D.
A good overview of some of the things that can make kids difficult, and lots of practical ideas about making life easier with and for them.
- How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
Another classic, and a must-have for every parent. Essential empathic and emotional-attunement skills presented in a fun, easy format. If you take this to heart it can change your (and your child's!) life.
- Overcoming Dyslexia
Sally Shaywitz, M.D.
If you or someone close to you has dyslexia, this is the book to get first. Authoritative (written by one of the world's top dyslexia researchers), encompassing, and a great reference volume.
- Parenting From the Inside Out
Daniel Siegel, M.D. and Mary Hartzell, M.Ed.
This is a wonderful book on the same topics as the other parenting books here. It is a bit more theoretical if you are so inclined, and a little broader in scope. At the same time it is full of personal examples from the authors, very clearly written, and hones in on the essential building blocks for your child's self-esteem.
- Pick Up Your Socks...and Other Skills...
Elizabeth Crary, Pati Casebolt
A helpful book concerning responsiblities, chores, and similar issues with kids. Lots of excercises, tips, etc. Includes a useful chart of common household tasks and appropriate age ranges for each of them.
- The Primal Teen
Barbara Strauch
There are lots of good books on the topic of the teen brain and developmental changes during those years. This is a very readable one by the medical science and health editor of the New York Times. It gives a nice overview of some of the emerging thoughts and areas of research on this interesting subject. Good stuff for parents of teens to be aware of, and to have more compassion for why your teens may do the crazy things they do.
- Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
John Gottman, Ph.D.
Similar to the other emotionally oriented parenting books listed here, from one of the world's greatest relationship researchers. Contains relevant self-assessments, breaks "emotion coaching" into key steps, and has a helpful chapter on divorce.
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work : A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
John Gottman, Ph.D.
Gottman has a slew of books (37 at last count!) on relationships and I don't think you could go wrong with any of them. Dan Siegel (listed above) has said that John Gottman should be designated as a national treasure. His research has created the foundation for a whole new understanding of relationships and what makes them work or not. And if you ever get a chance to hear Gottman speak in person, go!
- Teaching Teens with ADD and ADHD: A Quick Reference Guide for Teachers and Parents
Chris Zeigler Dendy, M.S.
This is a great reference book, chockablock full of everything you can imagine about ADD and ADHD. It's not a book to sit down and read through like the other books listed here, but if you have a lot of contact with ADD kids (and especially if you're a teacher) it's very handy to have on your shelf when you want to look something up, or want some fresh ideas.
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